Tuesday 25 June 2013

Children at Weddings, My Experience and Advice




I love having children at weddings, but not every wedding loves children!  I have been to some where they were woefully unprepared and one where they where so over prepared that the children where whisked away to the creche so quickly they missed all the photos!  The only person less pleased about that than me was the bride (as you can expect!).   

However if its mummy and daddy getting married all of sudden this normally independent toddler that you cant cuddles for love nor money, suddenly becomes incredibly grumpy and stuck to mummy's inside leg!  "Why, why today" I here disappearing brides say...... well I have a theory.......

How do we feel at weddings? We get emotional, we want to cry with happiness, we cant stop it but we can process it and laugh it off.  However for the child of the couple,  they know that they feel emotional but they don't know why.  That child can feel the tension, they can feel the changed in atmosphere but they have don't have any idea why it happening and so they act on those feelings.

So my advice......  don't get cross with them!  Give them a cuddle, tell them its an exciting day..... and then get someone (not the grand parents) to be there to take responsibility for the child for the duration of the day.  If you have a baby sitter or a nursery worker they may be a good option.  You need someone who wont be emotional attached to the proceedings, who can occupy the child just far enough away to keep them involved in the day, but not so involved it get too much for them.

I personally would not suggest they are left at home as the 'earth mother' feels they should be there.  However for the sake of a days wages, your mind will be a rest that someone else is responsible for the child. Not only for the emotional care but the practical care too.  That responsible adult will be make sure  they eat properly, sleep when they need it and nurture them during the day so, the parents can enjoy a wedding day stress free.






























Sunday 16 June 2013

My tribute to the other man in our lives - Happy Fathers Day!

My dad, well he is one of the best, so I thought it would great to make a special blog feature just for the other man in our lives.












Thursday 13 June 2013


My Beautiful Brides

(well, a selection)



One of the reasons I love weddings is for that one day the bride is the most important person in the world.  She is admired and cherished, preened and beautified.  Complemented and congratulated, she is truly special.

Now some brides love it, some don't and some, well they grow into the role.  But what is absolutely true is all are completely beautiful, and I am always so privileged to photograph them. What a compliment and a responsibility for me to be there with them on this, their most of special days.  

The expression on their new partners face as they walk down the aisle says "it's you, your here, thank god...................your beautiful" all in a split second.  It's magical every time and every time I see it, it gives me goosebumps.  I'm so lucky.


So have a look a small selection of My Beautiful Brides.